Perhaps not a comprehensive list but you can see that making changes is very difficult. Our connection to others (relationships, lovers, friends and family).Spiritual identity, or the lack there of, and experience.All change can be painful but a willing spirit makes change an adventure. Of course people can allow themselves to be destroyed especially when they don’t like who they are. My ability to adapt is the part of my life I can change without destroying who I am. Conversely I have adapted remarkably in many ways in my life to the situation I either create or find myself in. For me I am a giving and inquisitive person who gets a kick out of the success of others no matter what else I choose to do I will always be that person. Think of those areas that you cannot change, or wont, as your core person. Humanity is full parts and pieces, a complex web of what we are, who others are and what we are all shaped into, where we are adaptable and where we either refuse or cannot adapt. As one gets older we realize there is a better way, we say what we want and hear what they want and let the chips fall where they may. Many people feel that they should just know. People for the most part don’t communicate their expectations to their mates so they don’t get met. Although people might fight about finances or communication issues, they would not be fighting if expectations had been set. Almost all problems in a relationship are summarized by the word “expectations”. If you have heard it once you have a hundred times, a young women wants to change her man so she wins him, captures his interest then tries to change him only to be disappointed. The 5 food groups expose the best rules that both partners can live with and thrive under. Everyone has rules in their relationship, the understanding we come to when we couple up. Because FLR is not a true role reversal, the 5 food groups allow both partners to keep their roles and gender traits and much of their socialization to start, maintain and grow a healthy relationship based on “rules”. This site and female led relationships exist because of the influence of the 5 food groups on relationships.
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